The Night Was So Fun We Went Deaf!

Last Thursday we went out to the club. I haven't been to this club before and one thing I thought was cool was they serve their drinks in a small beach bucket.

We danced our asses off all night. When we walked out of the club we immediately grabbed our ears and realized that we could barely hear anything.

For the next 36 hours or so everything sounded muffled. That was such an odd, scary feeling. I can't imagine losing my hearing. We knew it was loud in the club but we had no idea it was that loud.

Oh the Drama that Went on Last Night :(

A group of us headed out to the club last night. My bf was not there, he went to the movies with co-workers. So a few of us sent him a text and told him to come to the club after the movie.

He sent a text back saying ok. Then sent another text saying he was going home. So I got mad that he wasn't coming out and called him. He gave me about a half dozen excuses as to why he wasn't coming out.

We hung up and started exchanging mean text back and forth. So I go outside the club and call him. We exchanged a few words which I don't remember them all. Most of them were not nice.

We ended up "making up" before we got off the phone but I feel like that little argument is going to put a wrench in our friendship. I feel terrible.

I got mad at him and shouldn't have. I totally went over the top and shouldn't have.

I hope that all of this will be forgotten soon and we can go back to being "normal".

My First Fruit Fly Post!

I wish I had started writing when I first started hanging out with the gays. It has only been about 4 or 5 months but if feels like I have known them forever. I guess because I see them so much.

I am recently divorced. I was married for 12 years and now I am 28 and single.

I have always wanted a gay guy to hang out with. I just click with them. Little did I know that my single life would lead to hanging out with dozens of them.

We have so much fun together. I have been to Gay Days, Pride parades, gay beaches, gay bars and clubs... pretty much anything gay related I have been to.

Now my best friend in the whole world is gay and I absolutely love him to death. I can tell him anything. I usually stay the night with him five days a week. I hate being away from him. Hate it hate it hate it. I have been on a couple of business trips lately and hated every minute of not being in the mix of all the fun. I usually spend more time on AIM and text with him than I do having conversations with the people I am with.

There will be plenty of funny posts coming...